Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Updated News: Watches

Updated news:

I just get found this CASIO Baby G series watches from the net. Looks nice, but i don't like digital watches. It looks like....ermmm how to say?? I can't fully trust those electrical stuff inside.. Prefer mechanism..Analog watches.
These are combination of analog and digital..hehe i like it.. but it seems like something lacking here. Is it not enough striking? might be...like too plain huh? Looking back with all watches i have..found out that most of my watches are so plain, this time gonna be something sharp!

Watches

Lately, i am thinking to buy a new watch. hehehe, you must be wondering what type of watch i want.

Errmm... Actually, i already have both casual and formal type of watch. But...i think they are not "chio". I want something big and "chio".... Haii.. ppl have different thinking at different stage of life. When i was in primary school, my mom decide what type of watch i wear. In secondary school, i want something funky! At colleage, i want something affordable. Initial stage of working life..i want something elegant and formal. Now...hehehe...i want to be "Chio"

Anyway, i haven't found my "chio" watch yet...perhaps is not i couldn't find, but i have high expectation, searching for something which cannot be too cheap looking, outstanding, long lasting and brand!! I found one at SWATCH, but.. i already have 2 SWATCH, so thinking to try some other brand, anyway...paying RM500 for a SWATCH don't seems to be worth.
You must be thinking, why my taste so funny, it's a man watch right? haha... Yup, but it's a unisex watch... That's consider "Chio" for a lady to wear men looking watch! kaka... i like the mechanism but...

Yesterday, i found few good looking watches that match my requirement of "chio" in the internet, not too cheap style, and branded! But... i'm not sure of the price of the watches, so still have to do some survey at the shop first.


Guess what is the brand? It's from FOSSIL. Quite special, with the combination of analog and digital. Hehe..what do you think?

Besides, my friend also helping me to search at Hong Kong, and he found something quite special. I don't like the rubber feel. However, the design is quite special but this type of design might not be everlast. So...don't want to buy..

I also found this special type of design in internet. The brand is NOOKA. Quite nice huh? But it's just selling at the North America region and even you can purchase online, but they don't ship to Malaysia. So, forget about it. Anyway, i think this style will get outdated soon.
Btw, any good recommendation from you? Please be reminded, i want something Chio...and nice...trendy but cannot easily outdated.

Friday, 16 May 2008

爱情塔羅牌

刚才好玩,在facebook加了个爱情塔羅牌的application. 占卜了之后竟然有这样的结果。好恐怖啊!。

死神 - 終止 (逆位)
塔羅牌義
死神是一個結束、終止,但已代表著另一段的生命。在基督教來說,耶穌是經死亡才得永生。在佛教來說,人死後會投胎,也就是說,若是樂觀,「死亡」不可怕。因此只在於占卜者及問卜者的心態。有人因抽中這一牌而去自殺,那是大錯特錯。他不只是代表死亡,也代表舊去新來的改變(可能變得更好)。而且未來是可以改變的。

愛情運勢
你現在不願意接受分手的事實,不肯放手,害怕這個改變。你為了抗拒這個改變,可能會採取一些激進的方式。但是這樣會傷害到一些人,建議三思而後行。即使離開了他,太陽照樣每天東升西落,不要想不開,要冷靜。

好端端的,为什么分手啊?真是不准啊!。

Thursday, 15 May 2008

Funny Experiment.

Just wanna share with my best friends here an experience i had made on my new boss. haha..so funny.

If you still remember, i think i said that she is very emotional and small hearted.
Anyway, that's is just my perception! It cannot be proved with any case supported.

So, i made a quick test on her during the past meeting.
As i mentioned before, our group will have a weekly meeting and in the weekly meeting, one of us will have to share our experience on our job. This week, there's no exception, still there is someone who are doing the sharing.

Right after the sharing when someone commented on who is the project leader, the presenter said sorry i do not know who. So in very quick response, my new boss replied.. XXX is the project leader. haha. i found a good opportunity and i said NO. YYY is the project leader. This year is unlike previous year, YYY is the project leader this year.

Hehe..i observed her facial expression so carefully and i see her face slowly turn into dark.. Great! Experiment one succeeded! Anyway, with expectation, i was waiting for the second outcome, ok i expected more! hehe

In about 10 mins, the result came out! She commented that she likes the way of presentation and the pronunciation, the grammar she used and how she carried the presentation. She also said "unlike last week presenter (me me!! i am the last week presenter), i think i like this!" Hahaha..... so excited, i nearly laughed out loudly! Wow.. i think her high blood pressure increased again!

Anyway, what do you think? I am so happy, until today! Because i can predict what she gonna do! But my bf commented that i should not do this experiement since i already know she is "small hearted". I might have tough day under her, but i think i am just entertaininig myself here so that i can work happily to be under her. haha...Yeah...give me five! Whatever! Nobody cares!

Wednesday, 14 May 2008

导盲犬小Q

请问有人看过{导盲犬小Q}的戏吗?

听所很感动。不过,我的目的只是想看狗狗而已。

呵呵, 如果你有这部戏或是看过这部戏, 可以分享吗?

听说是韩国片。。。主角(狗狗)蛮可爱的啦!

应该是黄金猎犬吧!


Monday, 12 May 2008

Cute sharing + my inner voice

Accidentally found this from one of the blog in google when i was searching "evil dog" this morning. You can go to this blog, there are more cute doggy in great words, just click here.
I quoted few which i felt it's very close to my feeling lately and added with my own words.

Yup, Happiness comes from self. It's decided by our own self, if we wanted to be happy, we will be happy. I mean we can actually choose our reaction, whether we wanted to be normal, happy or angry because of something happened. Anyway, there's related to personal emotional intelligence. I am not positive thinking person, so i always make myself upset and sensitive!

Hehe...jealousy is also my problem! Sometime really broke my head because of jealousy! haha not that serious. In fact, i think my current bf plays very good role in this part, to reduce my jealousy!

Err..hope our relationship is not going to be short one. Hope can be everlasting, although i understand that there is no such thing called everlast!

We been aparted for a week. hehe Yup, just a week. Not too long, but to me.. this time is difference. I feel differently for the feeling of waiting. Waiting days to pass and waiting for your return. Now, i just wait for the night to come sooner, to hear your voice.

Haha..your love bright up my life, it becomes more colorful with you. But without you, i want it to be brighter because... i just wanna prove to myself that..with you, my life are so great, but even without you, my life is still good.

This is great, ya! Sometime i care too much on those i can't control. Got to learn to let go and let things go naturally!
Hehe..i love the doggy, looks so cute and cool! Hope you like it too!

Looking productive at working space


You’re not lazy, really! It’s just that there are some days when you’re sick of staring your computer screen and are unable to churn anything out. We show you how to look like you’re hard at work when your mind is taking vacation.

Declutter, declutter
This is a far better option than staring at a blank document onscreen, and actually quite a productive activity to do while being unproductive. Not only will you get rid of the living ecosystem that has come into existence under that pile sitting on your desk for the past six months, it will also give your boss the impression that you’re an organized person when she walks by and sees you hard at work, clearing your desk

Reverse prioritizing
There’s always something to do at the office, from processing important files down to menial tasks like making coffee. While you’d usually start with the most important and brain-draining tasks at hand, sometimes the perfect thing to do if you just want to switch off and space out for a little while – without looking like you’re slacking off - is to file your claims and make your own coffee instead of getting that poor intern to do it.

Surf Smart
If the office snitch is around, make sure your screen isn’t parked on a site like Facebook. However, if you really can’t resist – and we understand that it can be hard – make sure it’s minimized on your screen. For good measure, always be sure to have work – related browser windows open, so you can switch between them quickly by pressing the Alt and Tab keys at the same time. You definitely don’t want a tap on your shoulder or have pointed glances thrown your way from your boss. Always be aware of your surroundings!

Come into the office earlier than your boss, or stay back later than he or she does
Putting in extra time at the office is a surefire way of making everyone think you’re hardworking and productive. In fact, you might just really be more productive when there are less people around. But avoid falling into the martyr-trap by whining to your colleagues about having to work so hard – you don’t want to piss people off.
P.s:\\ Quoted this article from Cleo magazine, felt it is quite useful to our working life. hehe. Sometime we must learn to be fake!

Friday, 9 May 2008

Zodiac Sex

Read this from a link, feel it might be suitable to share it with one of my best friend.
Hehe.. yaya, it's you!

Great sex is an integral part of any good relationship. But it's not always easy to keep things hot - especially in long-term affairs. Indeed, fanning the flames requires effort, openness and imagination. And what better way to do it then to incorporate a little child's play? Well, adult play, really.

On that note, whether you're in the first throes of passion or you've been together for years, if you're looking to liven up your boudoir (or open a few new doors with your partner), a little game play might be the answer. Lucky for you, the stars can help you determine how to create a win-win situation between the sheets!

Here is your guide to sex games - by sign!

Taurus is the food lover of the zodiac - as well as one of its most sensual lovers. So it follows that to add some play to your sex life, you'd be well-served with a bull to combine their two loves into a lover's food game. Edible additions are always welcome in the bedroom with Taurus - or anywhere else that you deign to do it. Choose the spreadable, smearable sort, put it on yourself and let Taurus blaze the treasure trail. Chart their territory wisely and they won't be the only one in for a different kind of dessert!

For Gemini, mind games are the primary tool of seduction. The focus here is on foreplay. One surefire way to set their libido a light is to indulge in role play - in fact, turning fantasy into reality (teacher/student or doctor/nurse) will be a guaranteed twin-pleaser. For added excitement try meeting in a bar and pretending to be strangers… before giving it a go in the bathroom… then leaving as if you're not going home together.

Cancer is sensitive - and sensual by nature. They're also submissive. Tie your crab up and spend hours lavishing them with attention (feathers, ticklers, oils - you name it), and you'll have cracked their shell for good. Make it your point to break their orgasm record… Then don't untie them until you're both repeatedly satisfied.

Leo is known for loving the spotlight - in bed and beyond. As such, Lions tend toward victim fantasies - victim of the voyeur that is! In other words, put the lion in the spotlight (doing anything and everything you choose) and you'll likely score points. Tell your Leo you want to watch them act out your fantasy - that they're on stage for only you (or the world) to see… their voracity may surprise you. Conversely, you could also try a little switch. Ask your Leo to watch you… they may find the role change refreshing.

Virgo may come off as serious, but keep in mind that their penchant is for neatness, not chasteness! Indeed, a little kink goes a long way with the Virgin. So don your leather gloves or any fetish gear that seems apropos (leather, latex and the like go over well here) to show them a taste of heaven… along with a little discipline… After all, no one is perfect, and they might need to be punished!

Libra is known to be fickle, and as such you want to keep them excited. The balanced ones will enjoy any sexual adventure that centers around location. Join the mile-high club, feel each other up in a taxi. Whatever, wherever can be your new creed - as long as it's festive and fun. To make a game of it, create a point system for initiating sex based on the risk factor of your location. Then set a time frame and see who wins.

Scorpio is the zodiac's siren. As such, even the most seemingly sensible stinger is open to sexual exploration - blindfolds or sex toys, anyone? So long as they're assured that you're under their spell. If you really want to blow a Scorpion's mind, make a list of questions about your desires and give them a personal erotic mystery to unravel. As they answer each question (correctly of course), remove an item of clothing… to reveal either an elaborate ensemble or intense arousal.

Sagittarius is a take-charge type, but adventure is always the name the game, which means switching things up on occasion. So, to set your Sag's blood to boil, remove them from the driver's seat for a second. Sit them down, restrain them if necessary and tease them, with a strip-tease, perhaps. The game, of course, will be seeing how long they can hold themselves back before they re-claim control and ravage you. Play your game outdoors for an added bonus!

Hardworking Capricorn is known for focus… Why not take that focus and hardwork to the bedroom? Try watching a little erotica to get warmed up, then delve into making your own! Just remember, the goat will most likely want to play the director… and make you the star. But once you have their attention, there's no limit to the heights they can scale.

Eccentric Aquarius requires a complex game to stay interested - sexually speaking. Feeling free whilst simultaneously entwined will do a lot for the Water Bearer. As such, if swinging is too far out for you (it probably won't be for Aquarius), pick a park to give some passers by a peep show. But of course, you'll have to pretend you don't want them to notice. Shy types fear not, it needn't be sex - a make out will do. For added points, keep track of the places you've displayed public affection… maybe even make a map!

Pisces is accustomed to being a pushover. But if you put Pisces in the power position, you'll uncover a whole new side to the fish - one that will make you submit to their whims! Ask to be dominated - to whatever level you're comfortable (bondage and spanking optional) and watch Pisces rise to the occasion. If it's near water, all the better!

Aries is not adverse to anything athletic that allows them to dominate. In fact, to please the Ram you'll want to make them work. A game of chase around the house… or hotel… or outdoor area of your choosing (with seductive stops intermittently, or a flash to give them a taste of what they're chasing) will do wonders. Just be sure to wriggle away and keep running, until neither of you can continue the chase!

So, how is it? i also not sure will this help, anyway just read it as fun!

Lotus

After view my blog, fount out that my blog is a little bit too plain and full of words.

So, to make my blog looks more visualize, share with you this lotus.

I took this picture with my hp. I think this lotus looks so beautiful in pure white with a little bit of yellow in the middle. Looks so elegant. Anyway, my mom planted this. nice huh?




This is another type of lotus. It's small but i like the purple color! hehe


Thursday, 8 May 2008

No big deal! Stay happy!

Opps.. surprisingly today I am having a good patient.
Lately, I was in a very low mood and felt so hard to continue working in current condition.

Fortunately, I gave myself a break yesterday. I went back home early before 6pm (I normally went back at 8pm).
I was actually having a long ride yesterday because of the traffic condition.
When I sat in the car, I started to think about my future, my experiences and my feeling on all those things that happened lately.
It was so painful to me and it was like, why all these things happened to me.
Disappointment filled me up!

But when I was passing through the fly over, there’s something flown into my mind.
Some voices that it sounds so familiar to me.
Yup, I remembered someone told me something!
I had experienced so many bad things here in this company.

Case 1: Scolded by a manager from other department.
Why this idiot scolded me? It was so innocent where one of boss here instructed me to move his laptop to other table and when the manager can’t find his laptop on that table; I was the one who get burned! Do you know the reaction of the boss? He sat there as it was nothing happen and did not help me out when I was scolded by that idiot.

Case 2: Threaten by a senior manager from other department TOO!!
This case goes this way. I was handling a project somewhere 1 year back. It was an office relocation project where many departments involved.
As you know, after we made our plan, get vendor, sourced quotation, we need to have an approval from several departments.
This document should be prepared by department A, checked by my department and approved by department B and of course to the top management.
So before we gone through all these process, this project has to be approved by the directors in the director’s meeting.
In the meeting, my division head explained the urgency of the project (due to close budget) and need their help to sign it fast.
So this “senior manager” said, well.. if you able to complete all this project, then I sign! Immediately, my division head called me from the meeting room and requested me to proceed and anyhow complete it by today. Because of this urgent request, I walked from this department to that department, getting quotation from the procurement (not to mention I have been scolded until cry by the procurement officer) and brought the quotation to the maintenance department to prepare the documentation. After that get approval from their division head, hand carried back to my department, did all the documentation from my side, approved by my boss, then rushed to Finance department get the finance big boss to sign it. My last step was to get the “senior” manager signature. At that moment it was 530pm and I don’t care what he was doing at the moment and I knocked and walked into the conference room and asked him to sign it. You know what he did? He said, sorry I am not going to sign it! I asked him why? He said because I don’t want to. I was so surprised he spoke like this. I explained to him on how urgency is this and I have to get it done by today. He said no, I wont sign it today.

Well, I walked back to my office and told my boss. The next morning, when my division head (the Japanese) complained to the higher management about this issue, the “senior manager” claimed that I brought back the document and that’s the reason he did not sign on it. How crap is him??!! He blamed me now. Anyway, I explained to my boss and my boss settled it, so I thought that’s it. Guess what happened next? The next time when I went to his office, he was talking to somebody (a boss from procurement). Guess what he said when he saw me? He said: “This girl ah, don’t be surprise if her car 4 tyres flatten by someone”. What do you think? This crap spoke like “samseng”. He is a senior manager, and I am just nothing, why should he spoke that way? Unbelievable huh? Anyway, this is what I experienced here!

Fine, there are still many cases out there, anyway I am so lazy to mention here now. (just came back from rework, quite tired!)
Anyway, what I wanna say here is, I had gone through so many things and sometimes when I really turn back to see, whatever happened now is just a small case!
Don’t have to be so upset. I should face it normally, don’t let it influence my life and my emotion.
Always stay happy and appreciate whatever I have right now!

Saturday, 3 May 2008

My New Boss

May I know the gender of your direct superior? Do you prefer your boss to be a man or women? What is your personal thinking about this? Any comment?

Since I graduated from university, I joined this company. It’s about three years’ time.
All the while I was supervised by male boss. Yes, although my boss has been changed for few times, but still man.
Lately, I had another organization change and again I have a new department head. This time, she is a lady!
Well, I don’t pretty much choosy in this, whatever he/she is, the most important is he/she is a good leader and understanding.
That’s pretty enough!

I remembered once, when I had a supper session with a group of friends and one of the guy said “I don’t like female boss”, because they are emotional!
At the moment, I was like “Ish..you are such a macho man that look down to the female”. (I didn’t speak it out, just have this feeling) Anyway, I don’t think that all female = emotional!
There’s still someone with high EQ out there, although I admit that I am the emotional one! :p

Ok, back to the new boss.
So, after she became our department head (previously was leader of the group), she started to implement her revolution plan.
She started to instruct us to do this and that.
You will often hear something like “I think this is better”, “I think you should do that”, “Please do this and that”.
I did not say that giving instruction is a problem. Yes, you are the leader, assigning job is right but you have to take care of the feeling of your staff.
Is not that you are the boss and you can ask us do whatever you want. You are just ruining your team.
Anyway, this is very general, perhaps all boss did this.. even the male!

Tell you something happen to me.
As per my previous post, you should know that I am currently training someone who is very slow and with bad attitude.
Of course, training her isn’t my wish or my boss’s wish. But when I complained to you about this matter, you said “please call a meeting and we shall highlight this to the top management”.
With hope, I called a meeting with the wish that I able to terminate this training. In the meeting, when I voiced out to the top management, you sat there quietly!
You did not support me. Why? You are the one who asked me to call a meeting and yet you kept quiet in the meeting.
Fine, I thought you have your thinking! But finally I get to know that the reason you did this is because you are just promoted to department head and you don’t want this matter to have any affection to your position.
I felt so disappointed with that! Really disappointed!

The story is not end when you promised my trainee that you will give her another 1 month probation period. Ok. Another instruction for me, I accepted it. I thought that’s just a month. I started to re-train her again.
But you know what happened later? She wrote a very long email to the top management complained on my trainee about ability, attitude and proficiency in language. I cannot believe that when she told me about this. I asked her why you are doing that as you already promised her for the one month. She said she is having high blood pressure and this matter is quite a headache for her. She wants a stop for this!
My feeling is like OMG! You are doing a judgment because you had high blood pressure because of this problem? I felt so surprise of the reason she gave me. But, I think this is solely caused by emotional!

Besides, I also don’t think she knows how to assign job. Every week, we will have a meeting where we share our experience on what we had done and she will assign when your turn is.
So, there’s once (few weeks back) she said next is my turn. So, I said no, I am busy lately. So she said ok, then she will present.
Following week, she said “next week your turn”. I was like ok, no choice, I already rejected once right. So I said ok. (With unhappy voice)
Infact, I am much busier compared to the previous week. Reason are I have few jobs on hand which have deadlines to commit. Moreover, I need to go business trip for vendor discussion.
She knew all of it, because she has all my cc copy of email and we will go for business trip together.
Yet, she wants me to present. Is not that I want to escape from presentation, but the matter here is I am damn so busy and yet you want to add my work load.
Is not like I can present without presentation material, I need time to prepare the material too.
Things gone bad when I suffered food poisoning on Thursday, I was on MC for Thursday and Friday of the week. Next Monday I have to go business trip in outstation and Tuesday morning is the presentation.
On that moment, I felt so bad about this, I do not have time to do my job (there’s deadline to commit), and I still haven’t do the presentation slide.
I was too weak to go back to office on Saturday because I was still vomiting after food and finally I forced myself to back to office on Sunday for the presentation material.
During our flight to vendor, I told her I went back to office on Sunday for the presentation material and I haven’t finish prepare it. Her reaction was “oic”.

I was so pissed off at that moment, you knew that I had food poisoning and I had business trip, then next morning is the day. You should ask me whether I can make it or not, whether I need schedule delay. But no, your reaction is “oic”. What a pathetic!!
The next day, I tried so hard to complete it in time and presented it in time. But I was so frustrated, of course also because of the salary issue added on.
I admit that I shown face to her. But I am so pissed off when she asked me when I can submit draft to vendor. My anger shoot up and I said “not free”!
Come on, I was on MC for last Thursday and Friday, OT on Sunday just for the presentation slide and business trip on Monday and presentation on Tuesday morning. Just right after the meeting, you asked me about the draft, what the heck! You think I am superwoman who can present and on the same time doing other job somewhere else? Silly you!

Because of all these added on, I am so unhappy with her, especially I was not promoted and have such a low increment. I gave her a double black face. I did not talk to her and ignore her (she is sitting in front of me). Really no mood or desire to talk to her, not even want to have lunch together with her.
Well, what will you do if you are boss? You knew that your staff is not happy or disappointed for the promotion and increment issue, what will you do?
Should you take care of your staff’s feeling or you just ignore it or what will you probably do?
Guess what she did? Haha.. She shows me triple back face (I show her double). Why I said so? Because she also shown her face to us! She was not doing anything! At least you come to understand our feeling! I know, I know you cannot do anything for this problem, but at least you show you’re care of our feeling. But no!!! She has shown her face to us. She don’t speak to us (me and my neighbour – who are very unhappy about this promotion and increment). Really felt so disappointed for this. Well, no one care to break the ice.

Yesterday, after few days thinking, I finally decided to break the ice with her, thinking to find way to resolve this. But what she did was like, you do 1, I do 15 (你做初一,我做十五). In the meeting room, she told me she has something to discuss with me regarding my job. Issh, if you have anything you wanted to talk to me, why should you announce it in front of all. You can always talk to me; I am just sitting in front of you! How silly is it?

Anyway, all these only proven one thing, there’s no more reason for me to stay and work for her! There's no future her!

Unexpected pay rate!

Are you satisfy with your current pay??? Is your pay over or under your expectation?? Have you ever think of this matter?

Few days back, i get my pay slip. April is a month that everyone waiting for, because this is a month for bonus , and also our promotion or increment month. If you are not promoted in this April, then sorry please wait for next April... This is the rule.

So, after working for 3 years in this bloody company, i was not promoted this time. That's mean, i have to wait for another year to be promoted...ermm..provided i will be promoted next year!

Yes..i expected promotion. Did i tell you that my former boss want to convert me into Engineer position?? Yes, he did said that. But now i have new boss, so i expected my engineer position is impossible for me. Because of this, i thought that they will promote me to senior officer..But NO!!! They did not.

I do not know why! I am working in this company for 3 years... 3 years and i am still an officer. If i am someone who are not perform or has bad performance, fine!!! But no.. you knew that i can work and you assigned me to take up a new department..but yet i was not promoted! I cannot accept this...I cannot!

Feeeling so disappointed with this company.. What for you work so much and pay so much of effort to this company and yet they do not appreciate your hardwork. Well, if you really cannot convert to engineer, then promote me. If you really cannot promote me, then please give me more increment. But shit..don't mention about the bloody increment! It's sucks!!!!! Damn sucks!!
I feel so curious about the management of this company, don't they know that promoting their staff or giving higher increment or incentives is a best way to retain talent of the company??? No..i think they don't know, if they know they will not give such a low increment. Perhaps they want to save the money for retrenchment.. By doing so, they can make us resign by ourselves. Great, then resign!!!