Well...i nearly forgotten that i have promised to continue writting about Life partner on my own point of view. Yup.. I am not only busy with my new job.. i am sick too! Lately, i am easily sick. I have no idea why but to explain that i have move to a new office environment and sitting under an air con circulation diffuser. So, i suck in dirty air which makes me.... Sick! Too bad.. i have been MC for so many times after i moved here...
OK, let's don't talk about that. Talking about life partner, i felt so happy to read my friends comment that they have exactly same thinking as i do. Yup.. i don't actually need some one who must stick to for day and night..but at least he has to be good in balancing his life. What is job and what's private life! I don't like to be with you jz because i need luxury life from you. I need love.. need time, need patient..and cares of course!
So, when i was discussing this matter with my friends in the gathering.. i felt like i am some one who are really tradisional mind! Why say so??? They said that, they can even accept if the guys have no time for them, don't have to care... but to give them money. That's really annoying after i listened to that... But of course.. i always listen instead of commenting. So, i keep listening.
Until they start to talk about what's their dream wedding.. dream house, dream life and also... about future... They start to talked about money $$$. It's quite interesting actually. But they seems to say that if your man is not actually earning great money.. please dumb him! Let's make it simple.. For example.. when you plan to get marry, you will have to decorate your room. So.. how much to decorate the room? Friend A: Rm10K. At least RM10K.. because you need to buy $^@*&@... So Friend B said: What!! RM10K?? No.. At least RM25K... I was like.. "freak".. after listening to that.. but.. still keep silent.. But my mind start calculating.. "tik" "tik" "tak" "tak"... why need so much?? Aren't that jz a room?? So, they start to say... hey joyjoy.. your bf earn that much or not??? i was still in my calculation... "HUH"!! Jz break up with him..no use to continue be with him, if you don't see he able to do that...
Oppss.. i smile..and think.."Are you crazy???" haha.. of coz... i never say anything..but..feeling very much funny with their thinking... So, get really happy after listen to my best friends comment.. well.. i am not that weird!! keke
3 comments:
Hahha... this is funny... & I don't think we are weird...
Basically, what I thinking here, they thinking are still childish. Yes, can't deny that MONEY is important, but LOVE is much difference than money. We can't judge our love with money. If you think more money can have more love, then I'm 100% disagree. Money only can make your life become better, doesn't means anything.
I think may be after they experience on it, then only they will know what is the difference lo...
So, Joy...
Be nice with ur bf.. Don't bother what other people said.. Follow your heart ^^
I'm always support you here~
That's sounds like i did not treat him nicer because he is not rich..
Anyway.. he is still him, no matter rich or poor.. he is still the one.. i only mind on whether he loves me or not, or care me or not..that's all!
Hahaa.. I didn't said u didn't treat him nice le...
Of course everyone has their unique part, including you & him~
All the best
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