What kind of partner are you searching for? Do you ever think of this kind of question??
Partner... there can be many type of partner.. Business partner, working partner, domestic partner..life partner..many more.
I guess there should be different requirement for looking of different type of partner.
But today i want to talk about life partner.
What is your requirement on your life partner? Someone who is smart? Rich? Handsome? Ambitious?? or anything?? Of coz for girls, they might have so many requirements in their mind..but love always make them blind.
Few weeks back, i have a gathering with some friends. It has been long time i did not meet them. In the gathering, we were talking about their ideal life partner and one of my buddy said she would want a guy who is ambitious and chasing for luxury life.. even though that guy unable to spend time with her, that's fine. What she need is the life, the commitment of great life. Because of her "target", she dumped her bf of 3 yrs and back to single life. She clearly knew that he is not the guy of his "target". He is in his 30s. Already lost the desire of fighting. He no longer OT for days and nights. He have other thought and thinks of balancing life. HOwever, friend of mine is jz graduated not long ago. She is still so anthusiasted. So passionate of working. From monday to sunday, from morning til night.. workaholic life. Different perception in life.. different feeling.. different way of dealing.. therefore, they broke.
Then we started to talk about this issue. Everyone in the gathering said that she is right. Don't waste time following a wrong guy. However, although i wasn't really know that guy, at least, from my one side perception, i think it might not be his problem. Maybe my friend problem, who knows?
What do you think? Is it necessary to have one life partner who is truly ambitious and can let go anything, include you? Don't you mind if you are not the priority of him? I guess everyone want to marry a rich guy, so am i. But i don't think i want someone who put me after his ambition and work.
Well, i want to hear what you think before i tell you what i think...so, let's continue in next post.
3 comments:
Well, this is our conversation last few days too.. Haha...
My comment oh...
Of course, we do not want someone only have work, but no time for us what. If only busy on weekday, then, I can accept as I'm also always very busy on weekday. But weekend, at least my life partner have to balance his life to accompany me or have some talk lo..
For me, money not everything! You can use money to buy food, but you can't buy health; you can use money buy watch, but you can't buy time; you can use money to buy reputation, but you can't buy friends; you can use money to buy house, but you can't buy family; etc. Therefore, do you still think money is everything?
Yes, money cannot buy health, but can buy health products to improve your health..
Yes, money cannot buy time, but with money you can shorten your lead time.
yes, money cannot buy friends, but with money, everyone want to be your friend..
yes, money cannot buy family, but can buy relationship...
why money is not everything? Yes, money might not be everything, but can help you get everything..
well, well, gals always wanted to find for a perfect guy, huh?
for me, i would prefer the balancing of life... he cant be a workaholic man, but he must having passion in life...
anyway, time to work, and time to love is always a dilemma... it's hardly to be balanced as well...
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