Unexpected Life

Yesterday, one of my secondary school mate passed away. Although i am not so close with him, but he is my brother best friend. Same age with me, jz 24 yrs old.
You must be wondering a 24 yrs old boy, why passed away in so sudden? I also unable to accept the fact too. But he death from Bone cancer.

Actually i don't know him, because i never be his friend, but i felt very sorry for his decease. He is a UM Chinese literature course student. Having very good talent in chinese language, publish book and very ambition. Because of his good result, he get scholarship to further study in both China and Singapore. But...

Having a good result and good opportunity wasn't the best part from him. He is a buddhist, very reverent buddhist and a pure vegetarian. It really impressed me, it is not easy to give up all those delicious food.

Yesterday when i went to his funeral, my tears was about to drop down. I don't even know him, but i am so touched with his attitude of living.

He started to get pain at his leg during CNY. He seek doctor but had no improvement. His family thought that he must be suffered with some sort of neuralgy pain, they brought him to check and ate some medicine, it is better for few days and then the same pain comes back. Searching for few doctors, but nothing changes, but more and more pain. He then admitted one of the famous private hospital, but the doctor said that he has Pneaumonia (some kind of lung problem) and requested to hv operation. He rejected.

Days by days and his leg is getting greater and greater pain. He then admitted another famous private hospital. 2 days later, result is out, confirmed the 4th stage of bone cancer. It is actually means the last stage! This is jz 1 month ago. What a shocked! We cannot believe that he get bone cancer and some more it was in the 4th stage.

He is so strong to take up this fact. When my brother sms and ask is he alright, he reply and ask my brother Not to worry, he is doing good. He took kimo treatment, but the cancer cell is not decrease but increased. When his condition turning bad, he is still very strong and told his mother he do not want to do any treatment, he is preparing to move to next station. When his mother ask him are you scared, he said that he don't! He "happily received" (欢喜受). The night while he is in the hospital, he told his mum he wanted to go home, his mum don't allowed because he too weak to move, his condition is too critical to leave hospital. But he insists. His mum asked if he can reach home in time, doctor said if want to go back, is better leave now. The ambulance take 20 mins to reach his house from pg island. His parents clean him 净身and help him to change. After put him to lies down, he passed away in jz a short while. His mother said at first he looks so pale, but after he passed away, his face turn "reddish". I think he went to "极乐世界".

After heard his story, i almost cry out, but i able to control myself. He is truly strong. For him, I think life is not complicated, but unexpected.
阿弥陀佛，愿黄子荣往生极乐世界吧。。。