Hard to be Girlfren

Lately, it has been some days i did not update my blog.
I was busying take caring my bf as he is sick. Anyway he is jz fine now. But yet to be discharged.
So, i will still need to rush here and there. Really tired... *~*''

Anyhow, from these few days of my worried, i get to learn few things..

Firstly, girls will tend to be more tension and worried when their love one get sick, they will worrying about this and that..{ok, jz about everything} and they can sacrifice a lot jz to make sure he is fine. They will able to give out a lot if compare to guy. Ok..I know what u gonna say.. I did not say that guys don't worry about their love one when she get sick, is jz that, they will act more steady, not like girls... {Not like me!!!} Arghh... from the first day, my heart squeezed like i am going to fall anytime.. {imagine how u did to the sponge when u wash the car!! @.@}

Next, guy think you're "Over-react" or "over-worried" when you started to ask a lot of question. "Are u ok? Got fever? cold? Pain? Headache? wanted to vomit? Hungry? bla bla bla...etc etc.." And they will say.. "Stop asking question, i am fine, never as fine as that"...So, u been left behind with a lot of curiosity and worries... haha...Gurl, jz control yourself!!! Guy don't think that your action is caring about them.. they jz felt bees... too much of mumbling!
But what would it be if the one been asked is a lady? haha.. i assume girls love tat. At least if it's not a 100 idiots question, i shall assume girls will not only like it, but feeling touch as they felt u r so so care about her. Of coz terms & condition applied..{Some gurls jz hate it!!! ShutUP! but not me}

Don't ever try to control them by thinking that's good for them! None of ur business.. Jz let it be. If not in return, they ll jz feel that u r too much controlling.. If they wanted to be a bird, jz let it be.. Else, you might turns up be a chain or a cage in their eyes. haha... u think u r affectionate to them and so they will listen to u.. Sure, they will.. "Yes madam" but secretly behind u, they r doing wat u do not allowed and thinking " U stupid!! I don't tell u, u know meh?!" and the music "I believe i can fly" already playing in their mind.. keke..

Last but not least, don't ever do something and expect ur partner will appreciate it and love u more! It might not returning the equal ratio.. Lesser expectation, lesser disappointment, huh! Same thing happened to my parents. So, get use of it, gurls. Normally guy jz take for granted.. Might not even thanks u. But somehow complaining about this and that..So what's the point!? u might say that everything u hv done is not with the hope that he will love u more. Then i say u r GREAT. But of coz, there's this kind of person.. which i really admire. Give without expect for returns.

So, gurls.. Is not easy to be a gf.. and guy..be more appreciate. Girl will jz gv u everything if u truly love and treat them nicely.